Baggage?....or too much information?

There was a time in my life when I had piled every stupid inconsiderate man in my vault of a mind and expressed these issues while dating a new man.

I must admit, I have lost some wonderful men from my hardened heart and fear of rejection. Now when asked any questions, I simply state it didn't work out. I enjoy getting to know the new man in my life and what we can offer each other. Not what possible sexual positions my past lover enjoyed with me.


For the first time in forever and a day, I have no turmoil from inconsiderate bastards. Nope, I checked that baggage at the door and vowed to take each new experience with a firm grasp on what I deserve. I no longer speak of past relationships to current lovers. Why would you?....how could you ever get close to someone else while reminiscing of what past lovers or in my case, what some losers have done.... good or bad?

How do you expect a man to fall in love when you constantly tell him how every time your last lover ate you out you wanted to climb the walls?
I agree, you can learn alot about the type of man you are dating from past relationships and a healthy dose is just fine but if you find yourself with a man that feels the need to constantly express what his past love life was like, while you are on top of him, get off!.... and I don't mean by the big O. What women are constantly accused of, baggage, unfortunately holds true for men as well.

Before you loose your self esteem to someone who doesn't give a shit, stick up for yourself! There are men who have resolved their last loves and don't carry it with them, never mind making you feel you need to know too much information.

Let it Go!