Reality Bites

I have become a complete and utter softy!
I have finally realized my motherhood along
with a few good relationships a boat load of
alcohol and one or two horrible loves, I am broken.

I can not believe I have twisted my views on dating
and relationships and how they should BE.
I know it doesn't seem so cut and dry but it is.

The information you are going to receive next will make
more sense if you read a few of post mainly, shhhhhh

If you are not being pursued he is either with another woman.
Or many! Doesn't really like you, no matter how many text or
late night calls you receive...

No, I don't think it's adorable when he came over your house
late one night but stayed for breakfast before running out the
door. No I don't think it was adorable when he said he would call
you and waited a few days because he finally squeezed you in
his schedule!

MEN who are actual MEN will go above and beyond to,
1. see you
2. talk to you
3. hear your voice
4. make you smile
5. WIN you

YES, I said WIN! Men are competitive!
The bullshit, wimpy excuse men now give make
me cringe! YOU are worth so much more! You have
no idea what life and actual love you would receive
by raising your standards and have him lower his ego.

I will receive arguments on this but before you respond,
Ask yourself, Does he call? often?
Does he make dates, plans and future engagements?
Or are you sitting alone, texting someone else and hoping
he will do any of the above?

I didn't think so!
Stop settling for a chump who will continue to
pursue the women who could cares less. Men
will climb any wall to reach the woman he loves.
And, neither of you can fall in love, If he doesn't
climb the wall!